Busting Boudoir Excuses
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses to not love or take care of ourselves. Life can get busy, crazy work schedules, always having to drive someone somewhere, the house needs cleaned, the dog needs walked….it’s always some excuse not to take care of you. We also use excuses like: “I need to lose 15 pounds first” and “I just don’t have the money right now.” I wanted to write this to show you no matter what the excuse, you CAN do this! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love!
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It’s also important to remember that if you are not taking care of yourself, you cannot take care of anyone else. It makes sense right? However, it is much harder said than done. Honestly, I am the worst at giving myself mental health breaks and that is why I think it is so important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as above and sometimes you just need someone to look you in the eye and to say: “slow down, breathe, and give yourself a break!”
At a boudoir session you are able to slow down, breath, and love yourself for a few hours. Think of how much energy you will save on a daily basis if you stop comparing yourself to others or stop worrying about how others think you look. You will see where your beauty truly comes from lifting this huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself so why not spend it getting glammed up and having an incredible time!?
“I’m not where I need to be weight wise/ I don’t fit the media’s idea of a good enough size.” 
Did you know that the body portrayed in advertising as the “ideal” is only only possessed naturally by 5% of American females? ONLY 5 PERCENT!
I will say this again and again and yes again….but WHY do you have to be a certain size to love yourself? Why do you have to fit a stranger’s messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE your own body? Why are you comparing you to everyone else when no two women are exactly the same?!
It is amazing to set goals and want to be healthy but, does that mean you have to hate your body to do these things? Absolutely NOT! You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so you can also be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate who you are now.
A boudoir session is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now.
Yes, a boudoir session is an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your confidence and wellbeing as well. I do offer payment plans! In order to book your shoot, there is a retainer fee. After that we will set up your payment plan for your package so it might be easier to book your photo shoot. Any questions? Shoot me an email HERE.
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